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30 April 2006 @ 11:45 am
Happy Birthday To The Oh So Sexy coolbananas!
06 January 2006 @ 06:44 pm
This was posted by weatherwax and coolbananas and i thought it should be reposted here.

A lot has been said about how to prevent rape.

Women should learn self-defence. Women should lock themselves in their houses after dark. Women shouldn't have long hair and women shouldn't wear short skirts. Women shouldn't leave drinks unattended. They shouldn't dare to get drunk at all.

instead of that, how about:

if a woman is drunk, don't rape her.
if a woman is walking alone at night, don't rape her.
if a women is drugged and unconscious, don't rape her.
if a woman is wearing a short skirt, don't rape her.
if a woman is jogging in a park at 5 am, don't rape her.
if a woman looks like your ex-girlfriend you're still hung up on, don't rape her.
if a woman is asleep in her bed, don't rape her.
if a woman is asleep in your bed, don't rape her.
if a woman is doing her laundry, don't rape her.
if a woman is in a coma, don't rape her.
if a woman changes her mind in the middle of or about a particular activity, don't rape her.
if a woman has repeatedly refused a certain activity, don't rape her.
if a woman is not yet a woman, but a child, don't rape her.
if your girlfriend or wife is not in the mood, don't rape her.
if your step-daughter is watching tv, don't rape her.
if you break into a house and find a woman there, don't rape her.
if your friend thinks it's okay to rape someone, tell him it's not, and that he's not your friend.
if your "friend" tells you he raped someone, report him to the police.
if your frat-brother or another guy at the party tells you there's an unconscious woman upstairs and it's your turn, don't rape her, call the police and tell the guy he's a rapist.

tell your sons, god-sons, nephews, grandsons, sons of friends it's not okay to rape someone.

don't tell your women friends how to be safe and avoid rape.
don't imply that she could have avoided it if she'd only done/not done x.
don't imply that it's in any way her fault.
don't let silence imply agreement when someone tells you he "got some" with the drunk girl.
don't perpetuate a culture that tells you that you have no control over or responsibility for your actions. You can, too, help yourself.

If you agree, repost it. It's that important.
17 November 2005 @ 09:42 pm
When i first started doing oh what a lovely war at the beginning of this year, i really hated it but now i love it, it's so much fun. I do seem to be rehearsing all the hours that god sends but i enjoy it that way. Would have been nice to have the day off mind...
imma feeling: calmcalm
22 October 2005 @ 09:30 pm
I look like a tomato, why you ask? because i have a temperature. It started at work then it went down but when i got home my mum made me take a paracetamol and now it's flared up again. It is not attractive.

Not by any stretch of the imagination.
imma feeling: sicksick
21 August 2005 @ 10:14 pm
Dude, i've been doing art today and it'a annoying me. it just wouldn't go right, stupid thing *kicks it* anywho guess what *drum roll* i have a new pair of converse, they are brown cord and So cool liek me dude hee hee.

On a different note, i am a planning on a having my hair cut and coloured before i start college so i shall be a looking quite different *grins* woot i'm excited but scared.
imma feeling: blahblah
Listening to: none *woe*
16 January 2005 @ 11:44 am
Wooo i have a live journal go me!
imma feeling: bouncybouncy